Courage is to Love Someone
Everything has been changed since we became adult. We have started thinking about our loved ones. We like being loved. We hesitate to love someone deeply. We check ourselves from loving someone but this should not be done at all. If you are loving someone, devote yourself to them. Their happiness will give him or her a strength but a dare to you. You will be fearless after sometime and you would be enjoying this feeling quite soon. Sometimes, we are unsure if we will be loved back. We are cautious of not getting hurt in this process. But, contrary to ordinary thinking, Lao Tzu claims, “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu says if you are loved by someone else, then their love provides you the strength. If you are loving someone without thinking about the end result, then you are a brave personality. You are courageous if you love someone from the bottom of your heart.
Art of Loving
You love and the rest would be taken care by the God. Even loving someone deeply without any fear is a courageous act. It is not the privilege of all. Only few people are able to deliver love without expecting anything in return. The real art of loving someone is to expect nothing in return. You would cry in the process but a lover learns a lot from it. Sometimes, you should try to devote your body and soul towards someone. It is a good feeling that cannot be described in words. Love is a selfless feeling but along with it, this feeling can be possessed by courageous people only.
When you love someone deeply, you devote your body and soul. Time and money are just secondary things that you devote towards that person. In the end, you do not expect to be hurt but sometimes, you get hurt. It hurts to get hurt but there must be something that has made you a courageous, a brave person. This something is devotion. Even after getting hurt in the process, revive this feeling. Take your time but this feeling should not be abandoned. This feeling is what makes you a human being.
What is Love?
Many people have different definitions of it. The definition of loving someone can be quite contrary from person to person. But, everyone must agree that it is a strong feeling. This strong feeling can be possessed by the brave people only. Only few who have been hurt in loving someone truly dares to love again. These kind of people are the bravest. Now the question that arises: What is a true love then? It is a feeling in which you can never get hurt. If you are loving someone truly, then you can never get hurt at all. In loving someone truly, you never expect anything in return. All you need is their happiness. If you have ever loved someone truly, then you might be agreeing with what I just said right now.
Loving Someone Again
Loving someone deeply does not get perfect in the first try itself. This feeling is easy to develop but hard to retain. If you are able to retain this feeling, you are special in the eyes of the God. God loves those who love someone deeply and truly. Anyway, there is a difference between loving someone deeply and madly. If you are loving someone madly, you are blinded by their wrong acts but when you are loving someone truly or deeply, you are in a position to check their mistake and correct them as soon as you notice them.
But loving someone is tougher to get. You can love someone but you cannot love someone again so easily. Imagine someone has broken your heart. You cannot have the feeling of love towards them after some time. It is actually fine. But when you will be afraid of loving someone else again, you are depriving him or her from the best feeling in the world. Perhaps, you have loved a wrong person. Perhaps, the right person to be loved is right now in your life. Instead of keeping the best and bravest feeling that is love away from your well-wisher, you should learn and put an effort to have the feeling of loving someone deeply again.
Written By: Krishna Kumar Singh