Just as the saying “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for”, it is up to each of us to decide who should be given space in our life. Some walk into our life to give temporary happiness, while some walk in to reap benefits, only few would wish to stay with us throughout the life at all times. Again, people would have different mindset when they are a part of our life, but our behavior and character can change their intentions. Love is the best medicine to cure any illness or discomfort behavior. Miracles can happen with love and affection; it is just that it should be showered to the right person.
Be Yourself at All Times
Don’t force people, be yourself and do your work, right people will find way to come into your life at the right time. Bonding is ultimately becoming passionate friends, a friendship that dwells all long the life with mutual understanding and forgiveness. It is a relationship that should be nurtured at all times with love, care, affection and humbleness. If there is something called as good marriage, it is the effort of both individuals to forgive and love each other. Many will walk in and out of our lives but only a few will leave footprints in hearts. Stay true to yourself, that is the easiest way to keep you happy at all times.
Be Sincere and Good to You
Be good and sleep every night with peace that all you did was for good and not a single person is hurt by your behavior. Be yourself and don’t change! Even if others treat you badly, be yourselves else there will no difference between them and you, if you start reacting to them in their style. It is good to trust people; but make sure the people you trust are really worth it. Some people change according to situations changing. It is only true people who will stay with you at tough times. This helps you to understand who are the ones who truly love and those who are faking.
Life is all about Loving and Sharing
Give space in your life only for those who deserve it, your life is not a place where people can walk in and out as they like. Draw limits for everyone and stay strict with those limits, if it is created, there is a reason for it. Nothing is nicer than having good people in your life. Appreciate the small things that they do to make you happy, don’t be a taker, learn to give and share. It is not possible to control life, but the people in it can be controlled. Filter those who are worthy and trust on your judgment. Those who are able to love when you are not lovable are the ones who really wish to see your success at every stage of life. Thus “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”
Some people in your life can never be replaced with anything or anyone. Hold them tight and be true to them at any cost, because there is nothing more valuable than having sincere companions in life. Those who actually try to stay in our life are the ones that are needed. Never compel anyone to be a part of your life, if they wish to leave, let them go off- holding too tight will make them leave faster. Don’t beg anyone to be a part of your life, if they love to be, will stay- no matter what has to be gone through!
Written By: Ria D’cruz