What Exactly is Love?
It is quite rightly quoted, ‘Some things are not just seen by eyes, rather seen by heart’. And those are the most pleasant things in the world. Yes, we are talking about love. Love is really not something we find, rather it finds us. Love is a feeling, a feeling that gradually develops towards some special one after several interactions with passage of time. You see someone, start interacting with him or her, and then have deep interest in them. This gives rise to what is meant by love. But the world of love is not as simple as it sounds. Love can be related through two basic terms; trust and respect. Love relates everyone to happiness. But do we all realize that how difficult it is to find true love?
“There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.”
― George Sand
Trust and Respect are the Essentials of Love
It might be a hard fact to bear that finding true love is not that easy as it seems. It might happen to be the most pleasant thing in this world but you need to work hard in getting it. The other word which can be related to it is definitely friendship. It is no rocket science that there exists no love without friendship. And the most important factors of love are mutual trust and respect. Without these two, love can never really exist.
“Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.”
― Ann Landers
The Real Essence of Finding True Love
Love is considered as the most pleasing thing in this world due to the fact true love is unconditional, loyal and produces marvellous reciprocation. The moment you begin to feel that you don’t get what you desire from the other end, and then it is not true love. Maybe there is lacking of mutual trust and respect. But once true love is achieved, the bond is just too hard to break. That is the real essence of finding true love.
“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.”
― Richard Bach
The End Note: The Most Beautiful Thing is Nothing but Loyalty
In a nutshell, we can conclude that finding true love is a difficult process, though it happens naturally. Mutual trust and respect are the primary essentials to continue the bond of togetherness. Friendship is the base of this most beautiful thing in the world. And love is one thing that brings you with feeling of excitement, security and confidence within you.
Written By: Hetal Kabra