It Is Worse To Be Loved For Showing A Fake Personality Than To Be Hated For Showing The Actual You

 

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“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” ― André Gide

 

That moment of your life when a special person enters and starts magical tickles in your heart is not something that can be expressed in words. It is the world’s fact that not everyone is sincere at all times, if you are lucky to find that special person who is sincere with all their heart to you that is great achievement in your life. Life is not about saying ‘I Love you’, it is all about the affection, care and attention. Be yourself with that special person and be as transparent as it can be at heart.

Be Yourself

It is okay to be crazy, stupid, silly and weird at times with people you love the most; life is not about impressing others, it all about being yourself with the right person. Your character is not something that can be changed per other’s needs, so settle your life with someone who love the way you are. Is there a daily routine for you? Then today is the day to break it. It’s alright to break rules to find happiness instead of being not you.

Let People Love You for What You Are

Looks, talks and style do not matter to those who love you for what you are. When you love someone truly, you can never give up. It is possible to pass months and years without meeting each other but still cross your mind every single day. Be in love with your life and you will start cherishing every moment of it. Even before you stop to say something to someone, just put yourself in their shoes and think how it sounds. Love is an endless act of forgiveness and not compromise. Don’t react to others with your emotions but react with attitude. Life can always change, can grow, and get better with time, so it’s better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not.

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Express Feelings

The hardest thing in life is to let go off someone who you loved sincerely, but if they hate you for what you are, then they are not meant to be yours. No matter how easy life can be without expressing your feeling, start expressing it to see difference in each and everything. If they want to walk out of your life, let it happen; they are making space for someone who is true and special to walk in. If it is true love, hold on to it until the last page is turned; for you never know when the other person’s mind will change. Waiting for someone feels special when they know everything about you and still wishes to be a part of your life.

Don’t choose someone who wants a second thought to accept you in their life. World is so short to live your life with the wrong person. Life will give you people you need, not those you want- so take life as is because it’s better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not. If that special person can love you unconditional without expecting anything in return, it is worth even if you travel an extra mile to make that person happy. It’s not always about missing someone; try to understand if they are missing you too. It’s strange to see how badly they want you now in their life, when it was easy at some point to let you go off. True love will somehow find space in your heart, no matter how many reasons for lay across them to hate you!

 

Written By: Ria D’cruz

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