The easy way to know how happy you are in life is to see whether you are living it or just exist in. Anybody can make you happy with interesting things but only few can make you happy without doing anything. It is essential to keep in mind; life is too short to spend with wrong people. So stop worrying about pleasing others and find happiness from within. Some people just want to see smile on your face and nothing more or less, that is the kind of people you need to have in your life. Don’t be much centered to one person, there are lot of beautiful reasons in the world to be happy. It is good to pause now and then to see how life is and what it is leading to. Enjoy today, forget the past and don’t worry much about the future as “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”
Don’t Compare, Just Live Your Life
Comparing life with others is just a waste of time, the real power is the size of smile you have at the end of the day. Just think less and live more. Those who are busy wondering about other’s life will have less time to enjoy their own. What people feel about you cannot be changed so just live your life in a best and happy way. Appreciate everything that you have to feel real happiness. Don’t strive much to have a perfect life, just concentrate on having a happy life. Be thankful every moment for all good things that you have and bad things that you don’t have. “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”
Seek Happiness from Within
It is a truth that difficult roads will lead to beautiful destinations. To be not disappointed in life, find happiness from yourself. Don’t expect anything from others, even if you like surprises, there is nothing wrong in surprising yourself. Smile is the easy way to destroy those who love to hate you. Not many know positive thinking will evoke energy and happiness from within. Also when it comes to love- true love will expect nothing but just your presence. Learn to smile because it happened, instead of crying it’s over.
Don’t let others decide Your Future
Not everyone is equally lucky in this world, it is not the external factors that decide your future and happiness, but it is you and yourself. All of us should keep in mind; happiness is just a journey and not a destination. It is your mindset that should be fixed instead of the way people think. To make everyone happy, you are not a jar of Nutella, so stop worrying about others and spare some time for yourselves. Be determined to not allow negative things to spoil the positiveness in your life for it is said “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”
Not everyone knows how to lead a happy life, if you think you can handle the happiness in your life, there is nothing luckier. No matter how busy and engaged you are with your daily chores, stop to think about your life and everything that made you smile. Make the most out of every day by having a heart to share and care. Start thinking you are creating memories for future, so when you turn old and lie on a bed with your partner on a beautiful night, there should be enough memories to keep you awake till morning. At the end of the live, you should feel you lived it instead of surviving.
Written By: Ria D’cruz