Make Your Long Distance Relationship Shine!
Being in love is a beautiful feeling, especially when you have your loved one by your side in the thick and thin of life. But, when you are in a long distance relationship, things may slightly change to a bitter-sweet experience. Some of these relationships fail due to lack of proper care and attention, but some relationships are ‘happily ever after’ just like fairy tales.
So, if you are in a long distance relationship with your partner, these points will help you know if the pain of separation is worth it or not!
If He Calls You Many Times A Day
A long distance relationship is itself hard to cope with, but what makes it worse is the lack of communication between the partners. If you are in a relationship in which you call, text and video call, you and your partner will both be happy as you will be talking enough to satisfy each other. There are times when your partner might get busy with work or studies and cannot call you, but if this happens regularly, it is an alarm for you that you are dating the wrong person.
Patiently Listens and Solves Your Issues
When you are in a relationship, all you need is a person who acts as a support system for you and helps in solving issues, if you are stuck in one. In a normal relationship, your partner is available and is just one call away or might even be living with you. But this is not the case with the people in a long distance relationship. All they can do is discuss the issue over the phone and try to find ways to solve it as they can’t be present physically. So, if you are in a relationship with a person who listens to you patiently, understands your point and tries to solve the issues without being there, then my dear, you have found Mr. Right!
He Trusts You and Gives You Space
Possessiveness is a poison that ruins a beautiful relation. It is common that partners don’t trust each other in the early stages of a relationship, both in a regular and a long distance relationship. But, if you have been in a relationship for years and your partner still doesn’t have faith in you, doesn’t allow you space and you feel stuck and suffocated, then it is time to move on from this strangled relationship.
If He Talks About His Future and You Are A Part of It
Every person has dreams of living with the love of their life under one roof and plans a lot of things for their future together. If you are with one such person who talks about his future and you are a part of it, then you are blessed! But if you think, your partner talks about the future focusing only on himself and you are missing from that picture; you should stop right there and call off this selfish relationship.
A long distance relationship is not an easy choice to make, but those who choose this path and successfully make it work are called “true lovers.” They are the truest examples of being in love in every situation of life.
Written By: Vishakha Goyal