Being happy differs from person to person. But the pleasure it gives is same for everyone. Everybody wants to be happy on this earth. But their happiness lies in different things. Few people feel happiness in being wealthy, few in saving huge money and very few in leading a plain content life. All of us are busy doing something to live a pleasant life but we are forgetting the prime goal, that is to be happy. The only reason for unhappiness in human’s own greediness. How much ever we earn, we do not spend on right things, which might keep us happier.
Being Happy Equals to Being Content!
When someone asks how happy we are, we say ‘our life is full of problems and pray God not to give this to anybody’. And we never think to say we are content with our lives with everything we wished. It all depends how we choose to live. We are the reason for every own happiness or sadness in our lives. Being grateful for what we got is the first thing to adopt to be happy in our lives.
Choose to be happy, leaving all the problems and stresses to a side. The following ideas will let you understand how easily we can create the happiest surrounding around us.
1. Make the Happy Choice
How much ever you may read or hear about being happy, unless you decide to stay so, nothing can be changed in your life. Remember always about one thing, that hurdles are common to everyone. You are not cursed but blessed to live happily forever. Whenever you come across something unbearable, you have to think twice whether to become stressful or to face the challenge with a smile on your face.
2. Live for Your Passion
Living for someone else can never make you happy. Do what you love and be passionate about the work you do. Never wish to fulfil your needs by someone else. Even expectation always hurts. Another important aspect to follow is to be independent. Never give the hold of your life to anybody else.
3. Create Happy Moments
Wishing for too much leads to disappointments. Love to live a simple life. A healthy person is the richest one in these years. Create moments with family, make them happy to keep yourself cheerful for the whole day. Never carry over the stress of office to home. Never be greedy about wealth. Saving whole money for future without enjoying the present is foolishness.
4. Be Practical
Sometimes when we fall, we feel the whole life is done. Try to learn to be practical in taking every situation positively. Whenever you fall, learn something out of it to never fall again. No one on the earth is immortal. Be calm and think of getting out of a hard situation instead of choosing to be unhappy.
5. Share Your Happiness
Sharing something always doubles it up. If you share happiness, it comes to you in a big amount. Instead of sharing your stress and problems to your friends and family, share your little happiness with them. That will surely heal your wounds. Being happy when you are among your loved ones spreads positive energy throughout.
Creating time may not be possible by us. But creating happy time is in our own hands. Happiness originates at human heart. Leave the unwanted things behind and make way for happiness in your life. If you feel your life is not happy enough, stop cribbing about it and make amendments to make it better.
Being happy comes from within and the way one thinks!
Written By: Hetal Kabra