Everyone in the world desires to be truly loved. However, with a generation of self-centered people, it has become an impossible thing to find genuine love. It has become something that is traded instead of being given for free, and this is sad. However, there are those that genuinely love you, and you can always tell. In the midst of all the insincere, ‘I LOVE YOU’ talks, you will always be able to recognize the sincere ‘I LOVE YOU’ talk. It is always different, unique, full of truth and honesty; it will be difficult not to recognize it. Jess C. Scott said something very striking. He said,
“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Learn to recognize true and sincere love. When someone who loves you is talking about you, have your ears open because you will hear their true feelings and see the sincerity in their words.
It is not only in their Actions
Love can be shown, and that is why we can recognize sincere love-actions. However, almost everyone has now mastered how to lie with their actions towards other people to get something in return. I have come to a point where I have realized that it is not only in a person’s actions that you can recognize real and genuine love but also in their talk about you. It is human nature to light up with excitement when they talk about something that is of great value and importance to them. Their joy will not be hidden as well as their love. Their words are always backed up with a lot of emotions that can tell you they sincerely adore that thing. It is the same when talking about you. As you listen to them, you will hear and spot sincere love in their words.
There is always an Emotional Attachment to their Words
When someone is talking about a person they love, a lot of emotions are attached to their words. This is because there is an emotional connection between the two of you. As they speak about you, you find comfort and emotional safety in their words. In the midst of their love-talk about you, you will feel their excitement, and you will see the expressions of love on their faces as they speak. If there is no difference between how they talk about you and how they talk about any other thing, there is a lot that you need to reconsider.
Words can also Speak Louder
When someone who loves you speaks to others about you, their words can speak louder just like their actions do. Therefore, never be ignorant about what they are saying. Listen to their love-talk about you and also listen to what they are not saying. As a person talks, there are always things that they are trying not to say by using other words. Listen to the unsaid words as well, and you will be able to recognize true and sincere love. When their words do not bring you emotional safety and comfort, you have a lot of things to think about.
Words carry a lot of power and in hearing a person’s love-talk about you will enlighten you concerning a lot of things. It will show you whether the love is sincere or insincere. Through their talk, you will feel their emotions towards you, and you will know the value they place on you. Therefore, learn to listen keenly at all times.
Written By: Vishakha Goyal